How good does the ground feel on your bare feet?
I took this photo at the Crystal Castle near Byron Bay during my June wellness trip in 2021. I couldn’t resist letting my feet breathe — walking on the uneven stone surface, feeling the textures beneath me, massaging the soles of my feet and their reflex zones as I slowly circled a massive rose quartz crystal nearby.
It was the perfect moment to combine two powerful grounding practices: focusing on the feet and being present in the body while being literally connected to the Earth.
In this article, I share two grounding pathways — one through the mind–body–breath connection, and one through direct contact with the Earth.
Benefits of Grounding
Life can be extraordinary — and at times, demanding and busy. We often have (or put!) plenty on our plates, and in today’s pace of life it can be especially challenging to stay centred and cope with what’s in front of us. There’s a lot happening in the world and in our immediate surroundings, and these external factors — combined with the reactions of those around us — can easily unsettle our internal landscape, leaving us feeling off-balance and destabilised.
In my personal experience, and through working with clients in my clinic, I’ve found that becoming ungrounded can happen as a reaction to the stressors around us — and once we’re ungrounded, it can further intensify those stressors. When our system loses its sense of grounding, everything can feel harder to manage and we can unravel more easily.
Re-balancing and re-grounding are essential components of kinesiology sessions, helping to reset our system and supporting a sense of internal steadiness. This way, we can meet life’s challenges with more clarity and capacity — even when the stressors themselves haven’t changed.
Grounding practices play a vital role in our wellbeing, helping us stay integrated and connected within ourselves, with more space in the system and less pull into survival.
How Being Ungrounded Can Show Up
Being ungrounded can show up in many different ways, and most people experience it without realising that’s what’s happening. It can feel like:
- A “top‑heavy” sensation, as if energy is locked in the head
- Excessive mental chatter, looping thoughts or worry
- Fogginess, brain-fog or feeling spaced out
- Feeling scattered, unfocused or easily overwhelmed
- Difficulty making decisions or thinking clearly
- A sense of being disconnected from the body or “not quite here”
- Heightened sensitivity to people, noise or your environment
- Feeling reactive, irritable or easily thrown off
- An internal rushing or urgency, even when nothing is pressing
- Feeling drained because it takes more energy to think, function or get things done
Of course, these experiences can arise for many different reasons, but in clinic, I often see them linked to an ungrounded system — and with that, we tend to be pulled into or stuck in survival mode rather than a grounded, integrated state.
How Grounding Can Help
Grounding helps bring us back into the body, out of the head and out of survival mode. When we ground, the lower body begins to feel more weighted and supported, while the upper body has more space to soften and expand. Instead of energy sitting “top‑heavy,” the whole system can settle downward, giving the nervous system more internal space to regulate.
From this place, we tend to feel more solid and stable, with better access to our full faculties. Thinking becomes clearer, emotions feel steadier and we’re able to meet life, situations and stresses with more clarity and ease.
Grounding through the Mind–Body–Breath Connection
Over time in my work, I’ve developed a grounding technique which I use to guide my clients, blending a nature‑based visualisation with the breath. It’s a gentle way of drawing awareness into the body and reconnecting with the ground beneath you.
When we consciously connect to our feet and the ground, excess energy can shift out of our head and our system can begin to settle, helping us come back into our body.
I invite clients to imagine themselves somewhere calming — a beach, forest, waterfall or any place where the body instinctively softens. This visual anchor helps orient the mind toward steadiness.
From here, the breath becomes the guide and supports the visualisation — imagining each inhalation drawing grounding nourishment up from the earth through the feet, and each exhalation releasing back down through the feet into the earth, letting go of anything that feels stagnant or held. It’s symbolic, but it works.
Integrating Grounding into Daily Life
Grounding yourself on a daily basis — even multiple times a day when needed — doesn’t have to take long. It’s a simple yet powerful way to return to the present moment, reconnect with yourself and settle your energy.
I recommend incorporating grounding into your morning routine, either before you get up or as you start your day, so it becomes second nature. There is no right or wrong way to do this; the steps below are simply a guide. I encourage you to experiment and find the version that feels most natural and supportive for you.
Here’s how I guide my clients, and how I ground myself. You can do this lying down, seated or standing, though a lot of my clients find it easiest when standing on their feet. (And yes — it works just as well with socks or shoes on.)
Step-by-Step: Grounding Practice
1. Settle yourself
Close your eyes (if you can, depending on the environment) and take a few slower, conscious breaths.
2. Connect with your grounding vision
In your mind’s eye, visualise yourself in a natural setting where you feel calm and at ease — the beach, a forest, a waterfall, a field.
3. Bring your attention to your feet
In your grounding vision, imagine your bare feet touching the ground. Sense the surface beneath you — sand, moss, soil, pebbles — and allow yourself to anchor into it.
4. Connect with your breath
As you feel the ground beneath you, stay attuned to the rhythm of your breath. Let it slow and deepen for a few rounds.
5. Imagine your breath moving through the soles of your feet
Imagine each inhalation drawing up from the earth through the soles of your feet, up your legs, into your upper body and head. As you exhale, release your breath back down the same visual route — through your body, down your legs and out through the soles of your feet into the earth.
6. Let your breath become a gentle energy wave
As you stay with this visualisation, begin to sense your breath like a symbolic energy wave — cleansing and helping you let go as you exhale, and grounding and nourishing you as you inhale.
7. Return when the mind wanders
If thoughts or distractions arise, gently come back to your grounding vision and the movement of your breath.
8. Stay for a few moments
Remain in the practice for a few minutes or as long as feels supportive.
9. If you like, finish with an affirmation or intention
Something simple, clear and supportive, such as I stay grounded. I stay connected.
As you become more practised, grounding often becomes easier and more familiar. Your system learns the pathway, and you may notice you can re‑ground more quickly when you feel off‑centre. This can be especially helpful when you feel exhausted, overwhelmed or caught off‑guard. You can use it before a challenging task or conversation, or before bed to calm your system and support deeper sleep.
Earthing: Grounding through Direct Contact with the Earth
Another effective way to ground is through earthing. This simply means standing or walking barefoot on natural surfaces such as sand, soil, grass, leaves, stones or even concrete. By making direct contact with the Earth’s surface, you tap into its natural supply of free electrons.
Research shows that the Earth’s electrical charge can positively influence the body — supporting physiological stability and helping reduce inflammation, pain, stress and sleep disturbances, while improving blood flow and overall wellbeing.
And beyond the science, there’s something magical about being barefoot on the earth. It’s grounding, freeing and often brings back a sense of lightness and childhood ease.
As always, listen to your body and notice whether this feels supportive for you. Everyone has different needs, and what feels right can change from day to day. If you’re uncertain, you may find it helpful to look into further information or speak with your healthcare professional.
In Conclusion
My personal recommendation — and what I see work beautifully for clients — is a two‑way approach that reflects the heart of Kinesiology: blending Eastern philosophies with Western science.
- Ground yourself daily by tuning into a grounding vision, connecting with your breath, your feet and your body. You can do this anytime, anywhere.
- Earth yourself whenever possible by making direct contact with the ground. Stand or walk barefoot with conscious awareness, allowing the Earth’s natural electrons to support and nourish your system.
Together, these two approaches — one through the mind–body–breath connection and one through direct contact with the Earth — offer simple, accessible ways to return to a grounded, integrated state.
If you like to explore how Kinesiology can support you, please email me, call or book online.
Happy Grounding & Earthing,
Lexi
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Last reviewed and updated: May 2026





